In the vast and growing sea of gender differences, I’ll give you one more example. On a first date, if you ask a woman about her sexual fantasies right off the bat, not only will they not be surprised, but they will think your question of “what makes you horny” is premature. Because your relationship is not that deep, so your words sound rude.
Male hunters and female hunters, allow me to “snap” a warning sticker to my previous suggestion of watching pornographic movies. You might think that every man dreams of a slut writhing around on him, and every woman wants a handsome stranger to hijack and seduce her on the shores of Tahiti.
Let me start by saying that I don’t think a few paragraphs detailing a woman’s desires in bed will make a man change his habits for a woman. I don’t harbor such fantasies. Even the clear and explicit illustrations in sex manuals do not teach men how to gently massage a woman’s sensitive areas.
How important is looks? Let’s just say that after doing the research at the beginning of this chapter, people are faced with a difficult choice: plastic surgery or suicide? First, for the sake of the men and women among us whose looks are below a 10, let’s deal with the bad news: looks matter a lot!
You may often hear happily married men say that the first time they saw their wife, they knew she was the one for them. Some men are attracted to a woman’s smile, others are attracted to her scent, and some men just feel right, like they’re “home”.